Well-checks for my August babies
For those who don’t already know, Nathan and Justin both had the same due date, August 15th. Interesting, right? However, Nathan came out naturally on the 13th, and Justin was induced on the 8th. I’ve always wondered if I had allowed Justin to come naturally if both my sons would have the same birth dates.
Anyway, now that their birthday extravaganzas are over, we are back on track with medical issues. On Friday, they both had their scheduled well checks. To minimize the amount of loading into the car and driving to the doctor’s that we would have to do, I decided to schedule both their well checks for the same day.
Here are the results:
Nathan weighed in at 33 pounds and measured at 38 inches tall, placing him at 60th and 64th percentile, respectively. I’m very happy about this since Nathan is known to be a picky, lazy eater.
Of course, Nathan is not Nathan without his usual quirks. Of all things, he was most afraid to get on the scale to be weighed and measured. He backed his butt up against Loi, arching his back, refusing to get on. So, we resorted to the following measures: First, the 5′8 office assistant had to get on the kid-sized scale himself to demonstrate what would be done once Nathan gets on. No harm was done. Yet, Nathan Boy still refused. Second, Loi tried to carry him on, but he’d pull his legs up, just as he did as an infant when we encouraged him to stand. Though Loi was able to get on the scale, with Nathan wiggling all about, no success was made with the weighing. I returned to the examining room to wait for him, knowing my child well enough to realize that you cannot force or coerce him to do anything. He just has to decide for himself if he wants to do it or not. Soon after, he comes running into the office to find me, and agreed to me carrying him on the scale to be weighed. As for his height, he allowed the pediatrician to walk him to the scale, hand in hand, without a single complaint or wriggling, to be measured. Loi and I stayed back at the examining room confused by our son’s moodiness. So, after all that drama, he had one booster shot. And, guess what? He didn’t make one peep…only a scrunchy face. Typical Nathan.
Justin weighed in at 16 lbs 11 oz and measured 27.5 inches. This was all very concerning to me because that means that he only gained 5 oz in 3 months, and barely grew an inch. His weight is no longer following the curve, but is below it. So, basically, he hasn’t gained any weight.
The pediatrician, Loi, and I discussed his feeding habits at home, and about his recent cold, and teething, and they came to the conclusion that his inability(?) to eat, or lack of eating has slowed down his weight gain. I, on the other hand, am worried that it may be something else. In the past, he’s been able to gain at least 1/2 a pound a month. We are going back to fortifying the formula to increase his caloric intake. We are encouraged to feed him a lot of formula, versus spending too much time on eating solids, although he should have both. We were given the OK for feeding him diary and egg products, but still no nuts or seafood. And, for those wondering, he still needs to be on formula since it will provide him with more calories and vitamins than regular cow’s milk. His ability to digest the cow’s milk is another issue we need to look out for. It seems he may be on the (expensive) Good Start formula for another 6 months.
In a month, we are scheduled to return to the peds for a weight check. Argh. Feedings and weight gaining are such big and frustrating issues. However, I hope that it’s nothing involving his GI tract, although I would like to see a GI doc for his opinion on why Justin may be eating less and throwing up more, now.
Anyway, will keep you posted. Thanks for checking in on our little ones.
August 18th, 2008 at 6:40 am
Is Justin more active now than he was 3 months ago? Could it just be that he’s burning more calories and his body is adjusting to that? At any rate, sorry you have to take on this worry. The eating always seems to be an issue with the heart kids, doesn’t it? I’ll pray that it’s nothing serious.
Wow, Nathan sure is selective in the battles he picks. It sounds like he wants to let everyone know that things have to be done his way! Elijah has the same kind of temperament, so we’ll follow your lead.
Take care!! Thanks for the update…xoxoxo
August 18th, 2008 at 10:05 am
Megan–Justin is more active now than he was 3 months ago, with the physical/occupational therapy sessions and all. He’s also talking and moving his upper body more. So, it could be that he is burning more calories. I didn’t even think about that. Thanks.
As for Nathan…everyday is a battle with him. Like Elijah, I think he’s trying to test his boundaries by acting the way he does. But, it keeps things interesting. I’ve learned that I, too, must choose my battles. In order to keep the peace, sometimes, I just need to walk away. Then, sooner or later, he’ll come around.